Intro to Anxious Met Avoidant

I made up my mind to have a dedicated blog regarding “Anxious met Avoidant”. This is a personal story and experience. So if you think like “that's not Anxious enough” or “that's not Avoidant enough” or “you should leave her!”, then definitely this blog is not for you.

Before jumping in, this post is an introduction so you will know a bit on what I will post here. Most of it are random things that happened between us, an Anxious and an Avoidant. By the way, we are no longer together. But occassionally we still keep in touch, and we might tell you more about it.

In case this blog doesn't post anything new, it means that there are nothing new between us. Or rather be like we have become a total stranger to each other. So, while it last, I want to store it as a memory here so one day I can look it back and smile a bit.

I am a man, somewhere around 25 to 30, an anxious. She is a woman, somewhere around 22 to 25, an avoidant.

How do I know if I am an anxious? I tried filling in detailed questionnaire from attachment specialist, and the result are always same, an anxious.

While she said herself that she is an avoidant. I am not sure where did she get to know it, but I can see all the avoidant flags along her words.

I will tell you in the next post how do we met. So until then, enjoy and thanks for reading!